Earlier today I'm in a really bad mood, well it's actually a couple of days already. I blame the PMS. I don't usually experience such a mood swing then, but then my husband pointed it out yesterday, that I'm being all pissy and stuff because of my period thingy. And I thought to myself, "Oh, really??"
Haha, yep, that is so true. If he didn't pointed it out I wouldn't have figured. But anyway, that doesn't stop me from arguing with him all the time. Well, it's normal to fight in marriage life. It drives me crazy if I don't, and I bet others would feel the same way too. Alhamdulillah, he is all forgiving and after each fight, he would just said, " It's alright. I knew this is just you, being moody because you're on period" Ok, fine..good that you know, but no, I'm not gonna stop, haha.
Man and woman are brought together by Allah, they fell in love, get married and have children. It is all fated. Through those journey of meeting, falling, building, bearing and living, we ought to face so many different situations where it helps us to grow, mature and become wiser. I fight with my husband, not the fighting that involve violence act of throwing your dishes, or beating your spouse (heaven forbids), more like bickering. Each of us would say anything to piss each other until at some point, we find it ridiculous, and laughed at it together. Most of the time, my husband would try to crack a joke by mimicking something utterly nonsense which I found it hard to keep it on.
Most importantly, during the fight, one of the parties should be more mature and know how to control the situation. One of my practised, proven method is to stay calm. I found it's best to recite the zikir to calm yourself.
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